Before we go any further – congratulations on your engagement! Live music is a key part of your wedding, and hiring the right wedding musicians can create magical moments that you and your partner remember for the rest of your lives.
Hiring wedding musicians can seem like a daunting task, but it doesn’t have to be. We’ve helped a variety of happy couples book incredible wedding musicians for their special day, so we know exactly how to help at each stage of your wedding planning journey.
In this guide, we’re going to cover every aspect of hiring live music for your wedding. We’ll talk about:
If you have any questions that aren’t covered in this guide, please do get in touch and we’d be happy to help you out. You can reach us at firstname.lastname@example.org
The first question to answer is a simple one:
For some people, there’s simply no question. Music means different things to different people, and if you’ve spent your life surrounded by music, it’s natural that you’d want there to be musicians performing on your special day.
For others, it’s a trickier question. If you’re on a strict budget, or if you’re having a very small wedding, then live music may not be at the top of your priority list when it comes to wedding planning, and that’s totally natural.
If you’re unsure about whether or not to have live music at your wedding, here are a few things to consider:
If you’re getting married soon, then chances are you’ve been to a few weddings over the last few years. Did any of them have live music? How did the music make you feel? Think back to the atmosphere and the vibe created by live music.
If anyone you know had musicians playing at their wedding and you ask them if they’re glad they went for live music, they’re almost guaranteed to say yes. Very few people regret having live music on their special day.
There are various points in the day when you can have live music. Some couples only have live music at one special moment in their day, such as the ceremony or the evening party, and others go all out, hiring several different musicians to provide a varied soundtrack throughout the day. There’s no right or wrong way to do it, but as musicians ourselves, we always recommend having as much live music as you can!
Music serves different purposes at different points in your day:
The Ceremony is often the most special and romantic part of your day, so having a musician(s) creating a magical ambience for you is money well spent. As well as music while your guests arrive, there are three key moments in your ceremony that can benefit from the musical touch:
Live Music at your Drinks Reception and/or Wedding Breakfast
The Drinks Reception and Wedding Breakfast is when all of your guests get to mingle, make new friends and generally enjoy good conversations (and lots of photos!).
Live music can serve as background music during these parts of the day, or it can be the main event: many couples opt for roaming musicians, such as barbershop groups or acoustic bands, who can wander around the venue and entertain different groups of people at different moments. We’ll discuss choosing musicians for your Reception further down in this blog post!
Live Music at your Wedding: The Evening Party
If you were to ask couples for their favourite moment in their wedding, they’d likely point to their first dance. Whether it’s a romantic and tender slow dance to a significant song, or an energetic and virtuosic display of dancing prowess to an upbeat floor filler, the first dance is always better with live music.
After you’ve had your first dance, you want to make sure that your guests get up on their feet and stay on the dance-floor until the early hours. The atmosphere at a wedding with live music is so different to one without, so if you’re committed to having a big party, we recommend going live!
Balancing your wedding budget can be a tricky juggling act, but thankfully, there are live musicians to suit all budgets.
A quick guide:
If you’re working to a budget and don’t want to spend more than R 3, 000, you can hire an instrumentalist soloist or a duo. Popular choices include having a violinist, cellist, pianist or bagpiper, to perform for your ceremony or reception.
If your budget is R 10, 000, you can afford a slightly more expensive soloist or duo, such as a harpist or a singer (R 4, 000 to R 7, 000). These soloists cost more money as they are in higher demand during the wedding season.
For R 5, 000 to R 10, 000, you could also afford a duo of musicians, such as a String Duo (Violin and Cello) or Jazz Duo for your Ceremony or Reception, or a Pop Duo (R 6, 000+) to perform at the evening party.
For R 6, 000 to R 10, 000, you may also be able to afford a DJ if they are local and don’t need to travel far to your venue. Bear in mind, however, that good DJs can cost anywhere from R 5, 000 to R 15, 000 depending on how experienced they are, and how good their equipment is.
With a wedding music budget of up to R 20, 000, you have plenty of options to choose from!
For the Ceremony, you could hire a String Trio (R 8, 000 to R 13, 000) or a String Quartet (R 10, 000 to R 20, 000). You could also have something different like, a Cello Quartet (R 13, 000 to R 20, 000) or a small choir (R 14, 000 to R 20, 000).
For the Drinks Reception, you could hire a Jazz Trio (R 13, 000+) or Jazz Quartet (R 14, 000+), or perhaps a roaming Acoustic Band (R 13, 000 to R 20, 000) or even something different like a Mariachi Band! (we don't have numbers for this one Hahaha)
For the evening, you could afford a great professional DJ, or a professional wedding band with 3 or 4 members.
Generally, most wedding bands with 4 or 5 members will charge somewhere between R 20, 000 and R 35, 000 for a full evening performance, which will include two or three 45-minute performances, and usually a “DJ service” where they provide background music through a speaker between sets and can take requests from you and your guests.
In a nutshell: there’s much to suit all budgets! If you already know what you’re looking for and want to receive quotes from available, local musicians, you can do so on the Fitchfork website.
What type of music should we have at the ceremony?
What type of music should we have at the drinks reception?
What type of music should we have at the wedding breakfast?
What type of music should we have at the evening party?
Should we hire a band or a DJ for our wedding?
So, you’ve decided on the type of music you’d like and when you would like music to feature on your wedding day. The next step is finding musicians who match your tastes and budget, and booking them for your wedding before they get booked for somebody else’s!
At the beginning of 2018, we surveyed hundreds of couples about their experience of finding and booking live music. Some found it easy, some found it difficult (they didn’t book with Fitchfork!) and some were kind enough to share their top tips for couples about how to book wedding musicians for their own weddings.
After analysing the hundreds of responses, we discovered seven major themes in the advice couples were giving to each other:
Once you’ve booked your musicians, it’s important that they know exactly how you’re imagining your day and how you’d like them to contribute to the ambiance.
The easiest way to do this is to schedule a call with the musician or bandleader shortly after booking. If you haven’t already discussed these questions with your wedding musicians, we recommend having them written down in a list and checking each one off once it’s been discussed:
Are there any specific songs that you would like performed?
If you’d like the musicians to learn a new song, give them plenty of notice so that they can rehearse it!
Are there any songs that are off-limits?
Perhaps you want to avoid the usual cheesy wedding songs that you’ve heard at every wedding you’ve ever been to, or maybe you want to avoid any songs with even vaguely suggestive lyrics. If this is the case, make sure your musicians know in advance!
How would you like your wedding musicians to dress?
Most musicians can offer a range of outfits for their performances, ranging from smart black tie to casual clothes or even vibrant festival attire, if you’re hosting a festival-themed wedding. Make sure your musicians know what sort of aesthetic you’re going for so that they can dress up (or down) to match your theme.
Think about how you’re going to get your guests on the dance-floor
The best way to get your guests on the dance-floor and to keep them there is to hire an experienced wedding band or DJ, ideally one who has performed at over 50 weddings. Practice makes perfect!
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